既 ㄐㄧ ˋ jì 往 ㄨㄤ ˇ wǎng 不 ㄅㄨ ˋ bù 咎 ㄐㄧㄡ ˋ jiù to forget and not bear recriminations (idiom); to let bygones be bygones There is no point in crying over spilt milk.